| Number | Date Of Hearing | Time Of Hearing | Location | Description |
| CI-903293-2015 | 27/4/2017 | 03.00 PM | Court 22 | Mai Thi Phuong Thao |
| CI-003880-2016 | 28/4/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Ella Wahyu Setyaningrum |
| CI-003681-2016 | 28/4/2017 | 11.30 AM | Court 22 | Louis Chen Hong Ming |
| CI-003809-2016 | 28/4/2017 | 03.00 PM | Court 22 | M Mariyappan |
| CI-003705-2016 | 2/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Yamen Supriyani |
| CI-003718-2016 | 2/5/2017 | 03.00 PM | Court 22 | Yuen Weng Soon |
| CI-003614-2016 | 3/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Wang Weihong |
| CI-003688-2016 | 3/5/2017 | 03.00 PM | Court 22 | Ong Chai Seng |
| CI-003889-2016 | 4/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | John Ying Wah Gibson |
| CI-003750-2016 | 5/5/2017 | 03.30 PM | Court 22 | Yip Wing Keen |
| CI-003774-2016 | 5/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Koh Suan Ping (Xu XuanBin) |
| CI-003775-2016 | 5/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Ng Le Xuan Jaelyn (Huang Le Xuan) |
| CI-003953-2016 | 8/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Xu Weidong |
| CI-003770-2016 | 9/5/2017 | 09.30 AM | Court 22 | Khoo Gee Keong |
Thursday, April 27, 2017
Tuesday, October 4, 2016
杂到完全下不了题目的杂想
我的思绪转换得太快，快得没办法一一解释和记下，往往想到合适的词汇和句子时，情绪上的细节都记不起来了。
我尽力把有关YW的所有搜索记录都删掉，却还是不由自主的在前天搜到他的出殡资料，而且还是在火化的一个小时前。某个开关又开了。
昨晚，对着Youtube唱歌的我突然又回到Facebook搜寻YW，发现有人点了首五月天的干杯给他。开关开了不久，我漫无目的的在Facebook翻着从前和朋友的合照，开始觉得自己一路走来并不差。既然我都对某艺人寻短的消息无动于衷了，那我何必在乎YW，甚至翻出他的过往？我有一股冲动，想把家人、朋友的照片都存在手机里，当我的救命稻草。
今早在厨房等着热水煮开，我又想起了YW，觉得短暂的人生其实也不算坏。但到了外头买早餐时，另一个想法又突然涌现：如果YW没活到上周，他被人记得的事可能没有现在看到的那么多；如果他再活久一些，毕业了，当上了写手，或许他让人记得的东西又会不同。
我回头看我自己，连我对自己的印象都是模糊一片，更何况是他人？那我凭什么去追求一个相同的谢幕？我还记得八年前JW的事（话说回来，这个月初好像是他的生日，这个星期一过应该就和我同年了），还记得自己曾经下定决心，要像他一样，创造一个最完美的自己，然后完美落地。
可是，现在的我是一块没有目标的浮木，接下来肯定会有更多类似的人与事不断侵蚀我的时间和注意力。即使这些讣闻能推动我前进，我还是不知道我想达到的完美，到底是什么样子。
生与死变成相互的助力，听起来很讽刺；
想死却发现自己完全连死后能被人记得的事情都没有，听起来更讽刺。
（打这篇文章以前，附近健身服饰店的促销让我想起了RH参加田径赛时的样子——他最好的自己是已经留下了，还是在离开时仍未出现？）
我尽力把有关YW的所有搜索记录都删掉，却还是不由自主的在前天搜到他的出殡资料，而且还是在火化的一个小时前。某个开关又开了。
昨晚，对着Youtube唱歌的我突然又回到Facebook搜寻YW，发现有人点了首五月天的干杯给他。开关开了不久，我漫无目的的在Facebook翻着从前和朋友的合照，开始觉得自己一路走来并不差。既然我都对某艺人寻短的消息无动于衷了，那我何必在乎YW，甚至翻出他的过往？我有一股冲动，想把家人、朋友的照片都存在手机里，当我的救命稻草。
今早在厨房等着热水煮开，我又想起了YW，觉得短暂的人生其实也不算坏。但到了外头买早餐时，另一个想法又突然涌现：如果YW没活到上周，他被人记得的事可能没有现在看到的那么多；如果他再活久一些，毕业了，当上了写手，或许他让人记得的东西又会不同。
我回头看我自己，连我对自己的印象都是模糊一片，更何况是他人？那我凭什么去追求一个相同的谢幕？我还记得八年前JW的事（话说回来，这个月初好像是他的生日，这个星期一过应该就和我同年了），还记得自己曾经下定决心，要像他一样，创造一个最完美的自己，然后完美落地。
可是，现在的我是一块没有目标的浮木，接下来肯定会有更多类似的人与事不断侵蚀我的时间和注意力。即使这些讣闻能推动我前进，我还是不知道我想达到的完美，到底是什么样子。
生与死变成相互的助力，听起来很讽刺；
想死却发现自己完全连死后能被人记得的事情都没有，听起来更讽刺。
（打这篇文章以前，附近健身服饰店的促销让我想起了RH参加田径赛时的样子——他最好的自己是已经留下了，还是在离开时仍未出现？）
Monday, October 3, 2016
Damn it
1984. April. 13.
23-year-old NUS Chinese Studies graduate See Chong Hui hanged himself in Pasir Panjang, days after the final exam paper in his degree. He had been diagnosed with depression. He was a cartoon columnist for newspapers, and was awarded posthumously for a play script. As a tribute, one of his poems was adapted into a stage play on his first death anniversary.
2013. April. 23.
21-year-old NUS Political Science + USP student Peter Huen hanged himself in Cinnamon College. The Hwa Chong Institution alumnus had contributed poems in campus, and was also a foosball player. His poem was published in a compilation months after he was gone.
2016. September. 29.
26-year-old Yale-NUS Global Affairs student Dennis Chiang fell from his dorm at level 16 in his final year. He was reportedly taking antidepressants. He had been pursuing writing as a career, with his contributions published in a yearbook (available in libraries).
Why are talented souls always being snatched away from us?
23-year-old NUS Chinese Studies graduate See Chong Hui hanged himself in Pasir Panjang, days after the final exam paper in his degree. He had been diagnosed with depression. He was a cartoon columnist for newspapers, and was awarded posthumously for a play script. As a tribute, one of his poems was adapted into a stage play on his first death anniversary.
2013. April. 23.
21-year-old NUS Political Science + USP student Peter Huen hanged himself in Cinnamon College. The Hwa Chong Institution alumnus had contributed poems in campus, and was also a foosball player. His poem was published in a compilation months after he was gone.
2016. September. 29.
26-year-old Yale-NUS Global Affairs student Dennis Chiang fell from his dorm at level 16 in his final year. He was reportedly taking antidepressants. He had been pursuing writing as a career, with his contributions published in a yearbook (available in libraries).
Why are talented souls always being snatched away from us?
Sunday, September 4, 2016
Distress Signal
The New Paper
Sep 4, 2016 6:00am
BY CATHERINE ROBERT, PHYLLIS LEE
Last month, two JC students killed themselves. Experts are seeing more teens over exam stress.
It has been making the rounds online.
Two students from Raffles Institution, with everything ahead of them, decided life for them was over last month.
And within 10 days of each other, both took their own lives.
They were A-level students, one in the first year and the other in second year.
What is worrying, say the experts, is that they have seen an increase in the number of students sharing the same disturbing thoughts.
"I've had a few come to me and tell me they want to kill themselves (because they cannot cope)", says Dr Thomas Lee, a psychiatrist from Resilienz Clinic.
He has 10 such patients now, twice the number from five years ago.
"It is actually quite common that these students get suicidal thoughts," he says.
One of his patients had suicidal thoughts and was close to giving up when his school counsellor recommended he seek professional help.
He was in his second year of JC.
Dr Lee says: "(That patient) was one of those students who did well in secondary school but saw his grades deteriorate after he gained entry into a reputable JC.
"Part of his depressive condition came from the embarrassment that he wasn't doing as well as his peers, and it didn't help that he didn't have a strong support system at home.
"After he scraped through his first year, he thought it would somehow get better the year after but it didn't."
His suicidal thoughts persisted for months, Dr Lee says, but with prescribed medication and psychotherapy, he eventually improved.
Last year, 27 children aged between 10 and 19 ended their lives, according to figures from the Samaritans of Singapore. It is the highest for the age group in 15 years.
In 2014, it was 13 suicides for the same age group.
Why they killed themselves was not specified in the report.
But several clinics here say they have seen an increase in students in that age group seeking help - all had suicidal thoughts.
When it gets to that stage, the student would have "endured pressure for quite some time", says Mr Daniel Koh, a psychologist with Insights Mind Centre.
He has 20 students who need help, twice of what he handled last year.
CUMULATIVE
Mr Koh says: "They might hit breaking point during the exam period, but it is important to note that the stress is cumulative and cannot be attributed solely to exams.
"For example, students can be pressured by a whole list of reasons like meeting parents' expectations, making it into top schools or even making up for previous bad results to lift their overall grade.
"The anxiety accumulates over time before it gets to a point where they cannot cope and start to have suicidal thoughts."
And this accumulation of pressures affects children of all ages.
A spokesman for the Resilienz Clinic says: "We see students of all ages - mostly those who are about to sit for important papers such as the PSLE, O-level to A-level exams.''
But the increased number seeking help is not necessarily a bad thing, says Dr Lee.
"It is good that these kids are seeking help young because it is imperative to intervene as early as possible before the negative thoughts become too persistent."
- Additional reporting by Phyllis Lee
"For example, students can be pressured by a whole list of reasons like meeting parents' expectations, making it into top schools or even making up for previous bad results to lift their overall grade."
- Mr Daniel Koh, psychologist with Insights Mind Centre
Signs to look out for
Parents should seek professional help for their child if they notice significant changes in the child's behaviour.
Dr Lim Choon Guan, deputy chief of the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at the Institute of Mental Health, said parents should take note if their child:
- Becomes withdrawn
- Loses interest in activities he used to enjoy
- Becomes aggressive towards others
- Seems emotional, depressed, moody, irritable or scared most of the time
- Experiences a loss of appetite
- Feels anxious and restless
- No longer sleeps well
- Refuses to attend school, or his school results plummet for no apparent reason
- Expresses abnormal and negative thoughts such as suicide
Psychologist Freda Sutanto at Kaleidoscope Therapy Centre says friends can also keep a lookout for the following symptoms in peers suffering from exam stress:
- Focuses solely on talking about exams instead of a variety of topics
- Suddenly spends a lot of time engaging in avoidant behaviour like playing computer games constantly - a result of procrastinating the inevitable anxiety
- Sudden consumption of too many stimulants, such as coffee or Redbull, to "help" with studying
- Appearance of dark eye circles or a constant look of lethargy
Dealing with stress
Mr Daniel Koh, a psychologist at Insights Mind Centre, says there are ways for students to deal with exam stress:
l Have at least seven to eight hours of sleep daily - the best time to sleep is around 11pm
l Maintain a good diet
l Do light exercises or take leisure walks
l Spend time with family and don't focus entirely on academics
l Strike a balance among play, work and things that require your mental ability
l Take proper breaks. Don't study through the day or night
l If you're a morning person, do the heavier studying in the morning; vice versa for night owls
l Spend time doing things you like, such as gardening or baking
l If you are still overwhelmed, seek professional help
She hinted at her depression in blog
Tiffany Quek was eloquent and her writing, thought-provoking.
It also showed a troubled mind.
On Aug 11, the first-year junior college student wrote two posts on her blog.
They hinted at her depression.
She wrote of not wanting to "fight" any more and "not minding" if she had to leave.
But none of her friends picked up the clues. Then came the news.
"It was evident that something had happened," a schoolmate from the JC tells The New Paper on Sunday.
"Her closest friends were seen crying."
"It was later that we heard news of her demise as it circulated. It was first given to her closest friends."
The school announced her death during its morning assembly on Aug 16, about four days after the incident.
Six days later, members of the school's track team were told of their teammate's death.
Ringo Han Jia Ming was a second-year student.
On Aug 23, the school sent students for "emergency civics class", and they were reminded by tutors of a support system available to them if they are struggling to cope.
Sep 4, 2016 6:00am
BY CATHERINE ROBERT, PHYLLIS LEE
Last month, two JC students killed themselves. Experts are seeing more teens over exam stress.
It has been making the rounds online.
Two students from Raffles Institution, with everything ahead of them, decided life for them was over last month.
And within 10 days of each other, both took their own lives.
They were A-level students, one in the first year and the other in second year.
What is worrying, say the experts, is that they have seen an increase in the number of students sharing the same disturbing thoughts.
"I've had a few come to me and tell me they want to kill themselves (because they cannot cope)", says Dr Thomas Lee, a psychiatrist from Resilienz Clinic.
He has 10 such patients now, twice the number from five years ago.
"It is actually quite common that these students get suicidal thoughts," he says.
One of his patients had suicidal thoughts and was close to giving up when his school counsellor recommended he seek professional help.
He was in his second year of JC.
Dr Lee says: "(That patient) was one of those students who did well in secondary school but saw his grades deteriorate after he gained entry into a reputable JC.
"Part of his depressive condition came from the embarrassment that he wasn't doing as well as his peers, and it didn't help that he didn't have a strong support system at home.
"After he scraped through his first year, he thought it would somehow get better the year after but it didn't."
His suicidal thoughts persisted for months, Dr Lee says, but with prescribed medication and psychotherapy, he eventually improved.
Last year, 27 children aged between 10 and 19 ended their lives, according to figures from the Samaritans of Singapore. It is the highest for the age group in 15 years.
In 2014, it was 13 suicides for the same age group.
Why they killed themselves was not specified in the report.
But several clinics here say they have seen an increase in students in that age group seeking help - all had suicidal thoughts.
When it gets to that stage, the student would have "endured pressure for quite some time", says Mr Daniel Koh, a psychologist with Insights Mind Centre.
He has 20 students who need help, twice of what he handled last year.
CUMULATIVE
Mr Koh says: "They might hit breaking point during the exam period, but it is important to note that the stress is cumulative and cannot be attributed solely to exams.
"For example, students can be pressured by a whole list of reasons like meeting parents' expectations, making it into top schools or even making up for previous bad results to lift their overall grade.
"The anxiety accumulates over time before it gets to a point where they cannot cope and start to have suicidal thoughts."
And this accumulation of pressures affects children of all ages.
A spokesman for the Resilienz Clinic says: "We see students of all ages - mostly those who are about to sit for important papers such as the PSLE, O-level to A-level exams.''
But the increased number seeking help is not necessarily a bad thing, says Dr Lee.
"It is good that these kids are seeking help young because it is imperative to intervene as early as possible before the negative thoughts become too persistent."
- Additional reporting by Phyllis Lee
"For example, students can be pressured by a whole list of reasons like meeting parents' expectations, making it into top schools or even making up for previous bad results to lift their overall grade."
- Mr Daniel Koh, psychologist with Insights Mind Centre
Signs to look out for
Parents should seek professional help for their child if they notice significant changes in the child's behaviour.
Dr Lim Choon Guan, deputy chief of the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at the Institute of Mental Health, said parents should take note if their child:
- Becomes withdrawn
- Loses interest in activities he used to enjoy
- Becomes aggressive towards others
- Seems emotional, depressed, moody, irritable or scared most of the time
- Experiences a loss of appetite
- Feels anxious and restless
- No longer sleeps well
- Refuses to attend school, or his school results plummet for no apparent reason
- Expresses abnormal and negative thoughts such as suicide
Psychologist Freda Sutanto at Kaleidoscope Therapy Centre says friends can also keep a lookout for the following symptoms in peers suffering from exam stress:
- Focuses solely on talking about exams instead of a variety of topics
- Suddenly spends a lot of time engaging in avoidant behaviour like playing computer games constantly - a result of procrastinating the inevitable anxiety
- Sudden consumption of too many stimulants, such as coffee or Redbull, to "help" with studying
- Appearance of dark eye circles or a constant look of lethargy
Dealing with stress
Mr Daniel Koh, a psychologist at Insights Mind Centre, says there are ways for students to deal with exam stress:
l Have at least seven to eight hours of sleep daily - the best time to sleep is around 11pm
l Maintain a good diet
l Do light exercises or take leisure walks
l Spend time with family and don't focus entirely on academics
l Strike a balance among play, work and things that require your mental ability
l Take proper breaks. Don't study through the day or night
l If you're a morning person, do the heavier studying in the morning; vice versa for night owls
l Spend time doing things you like, such as gardening or baking
l If you are still overwhelmed, seek professional help
She hinted at her depression in blog
Tiffany Quek was eloquent and her writing, thought-provoking.
It also showed a troubled mind.
On Aug 11, the first-year junior college student wrote two posts on her blog.
They hinted at her depression.
She wrote of not wanting to "fight" any more and "not minding" if she had to leave.
But none of her friends picked up the clues. Then came the news.
"It was evident that something had happened," a schoolmate from the JC tells The New Paper on Sunday.
"Her closest friends were seen crying."
"It was later that we heard news of her demise as it circulated. It was first given to her closest friends."
The school announced her death during its morning assembly on Aug 16, about four days after the incident.
Six days later, members of the school's track team were told of their teammate's death.
Ringo Han Jia Ming was a second-year student.
On Aug 23, the school sent students for "emergency civics class", and they were reminded by tutors of a support system available to them if they are struggling to cope.
Monday, March 28, 2016
[Self-help Post] Grieving for a Stranger
Stuck in another 2 demises (groom-to-be and promising entrepreneur, both in their 20s) recently. And still struggle to get back to my own life.
Luckily, seems someone knows me.
Grieving for a stranger
http://au.reachout.com/grieving-for-a-stranger
When someone in the public eye dies, the media can go a bit crazy over it. How you react is very unique to you, and you shouldn't be worried if it makes you really upset, or doesn't impact you at all. If sadness is all around, there are things you can do to help yourself feel better.
This could be helpful if:
Reacting to a death in the media
It sounds clichéd but there really isn't a right or a wrong way to react to the death of a stranger. Many people experience grief when they hear about a strangers’ passing, whether a celebrity or ordinary person.
If you are experiencing grief or a sense of loss at the news of a stranger’s death, it’s probably because you feel some kind of connection to the person who has died. Whether they were your sporting hero, they played the sitcom dad you always wished you had, a heartthrob you wanted to get freaky with, sung some song that hit all of the right notes, or just reminded you of someone you know, you feel a sense of loss because that person made you feel something, and now they are gone.
On the other hand, if you don’t feel a connection to a celebrity who has passed away, it might be difficult to relate to the public outpouring of grief that is likely piling up in your social media newsfeed. Without having established some kind of emotional connection to someone, it can be hard to feel a loss when they are gone. That’s perfectly normal and understandable - after all, your life probably won’t change in the slightest.
Everyone will feel different things, and that’s just fine.
Why am I so sad about this?
Regardless of how well we know the person who is gone, we know there are loved ones out there whose lives have just been flipped upside down. There are friends who will never get to say that one last thing and families who have an empty seat at their table. Also, you just lost any chance at letting this person know what they meant to you.
What can I do about it?
It's been a while and I'm still sad
If the feelings of sadness don’t go away quickly, or you feel like they are starting to interrupt your life, consider chatting to a professional about it. Moving through those feelings will be much easier and faster with a professionals help. A GP is a good place to start. If you need to talk to someone right now give Kids Helpline (1800 55 1800) or Lifeline (13 11 14) a call - they're available 24hrs, 7-days a week
What can I do now?
Luckily, seems someone knows me.
Grieving for a stranger
http://au.reachout.com/grieving-for-a-stranger
When someone in the public eye dies, the media can go a bit crazy over it. How you react is very unique to you, and you shouldn't be worried if it makes you really upset, or doesn't impact you at all. If sadness is all around, there are things you can do to help yourself feel better.
This could be helpful if:
- You're sad about a death reported in the media
- You don’t know what to do after a death in the media
- You don’t like how a death is being reported in the media newspaper stack
Reacting to a death in the media
It sounds clichéd but there really isn't a right or a wrong way to react to the death of a stranger. Many people experience grief when they hear about a strangers’ passing, whether a celebrity or ordinary person.
If you are experiencing grief or a sense of loss at the news of a stranger’s death, it’s probably because you feel some kind of connection to the person who has died. Whether they were your sporting hero, they played the sitcom dad you always wished you had, a heartthrob you wanted to get freaky with, sung some song that hit all of the right notes, or just reminded you of someone you know, you feel a sense of loss because that person made you feel something, and now they are gone.
On the other hand, if you don’t feel a connection to a celebrity who has passed away, it might be difficult to relate to the public outpouring of grief that is likely piling up in your social media newsfeed. Without having established some kind of emotional connection to someone, it can be hard to feel a loss when they are gone. That’s perfectly normal and understandable - after all, your life probably won’t change in the slightest.
Everyone will feel different things, and that’s just fine.
Why am I so sad about this?
Regardless of how well we know the person who is gone, we know there are loved ones out there whose lives have just been flipped upside down. There are friends who will never get to say that one last thing and families who have an empty seat at their table. Also, you just lost any chance at letting this person know what they meant to you.
What can I do about it?
- Accept that it’s real grief you are feeling. You’re not being silly. Take a minute for yourself if you need to.
- Check in with mates. If you’re upset, chances are your friends are too. Ask how they are doing, and talk it over with them.
- Turn off the news/log off social media. Sometimes seeing the never ending stream of tributes can be overwhelming.
- Write it down. Putting your thoughts onto paper can help clarify how you’re feeling and make it easier to process.
- Report it. There are pretty strict rules about reporting death in the media, especially around suicide or mental health issues. Check out mindframe for more info, and contact ACMA if you want to make a complaint.
It's been a while and I'm still sad
If the feelings of sadness don’t go away quickly, or you feel like they are starting to interrupt your life, consider chatting to a professional about it. Moving through those feelings will be much easier and faster with a professionals help. A GP is a good place to start. If you need to talk to someone right now give Kids Helpline (1800 55 1800) or Lifeline (13 11 14) a call - they're available 24hrs, 7-days a week
What can I do now?
- Find out more about common ways people respond to loss.
- Check out some coping skills.
- Get more info on loss and grief.
Additional Resources:
http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-im-crying-over-a-strangers-death-78887/
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/mourning-jeffrey.html
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/mourning-jeffrey.html
Tuesday, October 27, 2015
20151027 The Straits Times
Army sergeant dies in car accident near Second Link
PUBLISHED OCT 27, 2015, 10:22 PM SGT
SINGAPORE - A sergeant in the Singapore Armed Forces (SAF) died in a car crash in Johor on Sunday (Oct 25), as he returned from a trip to Malacca with his brother and a friend.
The three were driving along thehighway near the Second Link on Sunday (Oct 25) afternoon when the car skidded after a tyre puncture, Chinese evening daily Lianhe Wanbao reported.
Mr Tang Liang Wei, 23, flew out of the car and died at the scene, reported Wanbao, quoting Johor police.
His brother, Mr Tang Xuan Wei, 21, is believed to be the driver.
This was the second tyre puncture they encountered during the drive back. They stopped at Yong Peng earlier to change the right rear tyre.
When the tyre punctured the second time, the car swerved violently and the older Mr Tang was hurled out of the car, suffering serious injuries to his head, Wanbao said.
His younger brother and their friend were unhurt.
It was drizzling and the road was wet, The Straits Times understands.
Mr Tang Liang Wei was a third sergeant in the SAF.
His brother, Xuan Wei, wrote on Facebook on Monday: "Kor kor (elder brother)... You will always be in my heart. I will be strong, for you... please bless us where ever you are. I love you."
In another post, he wrote in Mandarin: "You went with regrets, I will live with guilt."
PUBLISHED OCT 27, 2015, 10:22 PM SGT
SINGAPORE - A sergeant in the Singapore Armed Forces (SAF) died in a car crash in Johor on Sunday (Oct 25), as he returned from a trip to Malacca with his brother and a friend.
The three were driving along thehighway near the Second Link on Sunday (Oct 25) afternoon when the car skidded after a tyre puncture, Chinese evening daily Lianhe Wanbao reported.
Mr Tang Liang Wei, 23, flew out of the car and died at the scene, reported Wanbao, quoting Johor police.
His brother, Mr Tang Xuan Wei, 21, is believed to be the driver.
This was the second tyre puncture they encountered during the drive back. They stopped at Yong Peng earlier to change the right rear tyre.
When the tyre punctured the second time, the car swerved violently and the older Mr Tang was hurled out of the car, suffering serious injuries to his head, Wanbao said.
His younger brother and their friend were unhurt.
It was drizzling and the road was wet, The Straits Times understands.
Mr Tang Liang Wei was a third sergeant in the SAF.
His brother, Xuan Wei, wrote on Facebook on Monday: "Kor kor (elder brother)... You will always be in my heart. I will be strong, for you... please bless us where ever you are. I love you."
In another post, he wrote in Mandarin: "You went with regrets, I will live with guilt."
20151027 Lianhe Wanbao
弟开车返新路上
两次爆胎 兄抛车外死
27/10/2015 by 黄志发 王震宇
从马六甲回返狮城，弟弟开车，途中两次爆胎，第二次爆胎时汽车失控打滑，哥哥整个人从后挡风镜抛飞出车外，当场惨死。
这起致命车祸，发生在前天下午2时45分，地点靠近新马第二通道第23.8公里附近的路段。
不幸遭抛飞身亡的哥哥邓亮伟（23岁），是武装部队的一名三级上士。据了解，汽车司机是他的二弟邓轩维（21岁，译音）。当时肇祸的汽车内还有另一名男子薛德俊（17岁，译音，新加坡理工学学生），相信是弟弟的朋友。
柔佛努沙再也警区主任诺哈欣今早接受本报记者访问时说，证实这起车祸。
据他说，初步调查显示，当时车上共有三人，开车的是邓轩维，死者则坐在后座。据了解，另一个朋友坐在后座。
警区主任诺哈欣说，初步调查，汽车驶到柔佛永平时，右边的后轮胎突然爆胎，他们停车更换轮胎后继续上路。
不料来到案发地点时，被更换的轮胎又再次爆裂，导致汽车失控，从左边冲到右边路段。
猛烈的冲击力，导致死者连同车后的挡风镜一起被抛出车外。
诺哈欣表示，死者的头部受重伤，当场死亡。
同行的友人和死者的二弟，据知没有在意外中受伤。
薛德俊目前就读新加坡理工学院，今年17岁，相信是二弟的朋友。
他当时坐在副驾驶座，据了解意外发生后并没有受伤。
车祸发生时，现场下着毛毛雨，路面湿滑。
努沙再也警區主任诺哈欣告诉本报，事发现场共有两个车道，路段是笔直的。
他说，据调查，当时光线充足，不过下着小雨，路面湿滑。
他也指附近的路标指示清楚，除了轮胎爆胎外，没有其他造成车祸的疑点。
好心狮城车主 载死者父母认尸
好心狮城车主协助报警，还载死者父母到新山医院认尸。
据本报了解，三人共乘的是三菱Lancer汽车；事发后，尾随的一辆狮城汽车目睹车祸，立刻停车帮忙。
狮城车主先拨电报警，跟着向邓轩维与薛德俊了解情况。
由于两人要留下协助当地警方调查，因此狮城车主返回新加坡，协助载死者的父母过去新山医院。
昨晚死者二弟在灵堂受访时，也承认获得好心狮城车主的协助，但不愿多谈。
弟弟自责：你遗憾上路 我内疚一世
死者二弟面簿留言语带自责，他说：“你带着遗憾上路, 我挂着内疚一世”。
眼看大哥因自己受伤过世，开车的邓轩维先在大哥的面簿留言说：“哥哥，一路走好，你将永远在我心中；为了你我会坚强，请保佑我们，我爱你。”
跟着，一个小时后他又在自己的面簿留言指大哥遗憾上路，但他也一世内疚。
许多亲友担心他的情绪，纷纷留言鼓励他振作。
弟为兄守灵 亲友一旁陪伴
弟弟神情哀伤地为哥哥守灵，亲友在旁陪伴。
记者昨晚走访遗体停柩处，但死者的二弟婉拒受访，表示不方便透露太多。
弟弟一边招呼亲友，一边为哥哥守灵，神色凝重。一群约10名相信是弟弟的朋友，在一旁陪伴和安慰他，待了一个多小时后才离开。
据死者的一名邻居说，前晚曾听到单位内，传出哭泣声，但不知什么事情。
死者的遗体昨天运回国，明天出殡。
死者遗体昨天下午从马国运回新加坡，停柩在住家楼下。死者的二弟透露，哥哥会在星期四出殡。
昨晚是丧礼的第一晚，许多亲朋好友都前去慰问，大家的心情都很沉重。
两次爆胎 兄抛车外死
27/10/2015 by 黄志发 王震宇
从马六甲回返狮城，弟弟开车，途中两次爆胎，第二次爆胎时汽车失控打滑，哥哥整个人从后挡风镜抛飞出车外，当场惨死。
这起致命车祸，发生在前天下午2时45分，地点靠近新马第二通道第23.8公里附近的路段。
不幸遭抛飞身亡的哥哥邓亮伟（23岁），是武装部队的一名三级上士。据了解，汽车司机是他的二弟邓轩维（21岁，译音）。当时肇祸的汽车内还有另一名男子薛德俊（17岁，译音，新加坡理工学学生），相信是弟弟的朋友。
柔佛努沙再也警区主任诺哈欣今早接受本报记者访问时说，证实这起车祸。
据他说，初步调查显示，当时车上共有三人，开车的是邓轩维，死者则坐在后座。据了解，另一个朋友坐在后座。
警区主任诺哈欣说，初步调查，汽车驶到柔佛永平时，右边的后轮胎突然爆胎，他们停车更换轮胎后继续上路。
不料来到案发地点时，被更换的轮胎又再次爆裂，导致汽车失控，从左边冲到右边路段。
猛烈的冲击力，导致死者连同车后的挡风镜一起被抛出车外。
诺哈欣表示，死者的头部受重伤，当场死亡。
同行的友人和死者的二弟，据知没有在意外中受伤。
薛德俊目前就读新加坡理工学院，今年17岁，相信是二弟的朋友。
他当时坐在副驾驶座，据了解意外发生后并没有受伤。
车祸发生时，现场下着毛毛雨，路面湿滑。
努沙再也警區主任诺哈欣告诉本报，事发现场共有两个车道，路段是笔直的。
他说，据调查，当时光线充足，不过下着小雨，路面湿滑。
他也指附近的路标指示清楚，除了轮胎爆胎外，没有其他造成车祸的疑点。
好心狮城车主 载死者父母认尸
好心狮城车主协助报警，还载死者父母到新山医院认尸。
据本报了解，三人共乘的是三菱Lancer汽车；事发后，尾随的一辆狮城汽车目睹车祸，立刻停车帮忙。
狮城车主先拨电报警，跟着向邓轩维与薛德俊了解情况。
由于两人要留下协助当地警方调查，因此狮城车主返回新加坡，协助载死者的父母过去新山医院。
昨晚死者二弟在灵堂受访时，也承认获得好心狮城车主的协助，但不愿多谈。
弟弟自责：你遗憾上路 我内疚一世
死者二弟面簿留言语带自责，他说：“你带着遗憾上路, 我挂着内疚一世”。
眼看大哥因自己受伤过世，开车的邓轩维先在大哥的面簿留言说：“哥哥，一路走好，你将永远在我心中；为了你我会坚强，请保佑我们，我爱你。”
跟着，一个小时后他又在自己的面簿留言指大哥遗憾上路，但他也一世内疚。
许多亲友担心他的情绪，纷纷留言鼓励他振作。
弟为兄守灵 亲友一旁陪伴
弟弟神情哀伤地为哥哥守灵，亲友在旁陪伴。
记者昨晚走访遗体停柩处，但死者的二弟婉拒受访，表示不方便透露太多。
弟弟一边招呼亲友，一边为哥哥守灵，神色凝重。一群约10名相信是弟弟的朋友，在一旁陪伴和安慰他，待了一个多小时后才离开。
据死者的一名邻居说，前晚曾听到单位内，传出哭泣声，但不知什么事情。
死者的遗体昨天运回国，明天出殡。
死者遗体昨天下午从马国运回新加坡，停柩在住家楼下。死者的二弟透露，哥哥会在星期四出殡。
昨晚是丧礼的第一晚，许多亲朋好友都前去慰问，大家的心情都很沉重。
Tuesday, August 18, 2015
Wednesday, August 5, 2015
如果有时光机，我想把这封信传回去
我太容易被一些憾事困扰，包括这一件。
那种“如果可以改变历史”的思绪反复循环，真的很不好受。
所以，我决定把我能用来劝说的话全写下来。我不擅长说服人，但真的还是希望有一台时光机能把这封信寄回几天前，或许可以赌一把，让他留下。
我不希望这只是妄想，不希望这只是写来放过自己的一篇文章。
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嘿，大帅哥：
还有几个小时，先预祝你生日快乐，总算到达一个里程碑。
你不必知道我是谁，但我知道你想趁着生日实行某件大事。我写这封信的目的，就是为了阻止你做这件事。
你或许觉得是自己是在实现Charlie Charlie的预言——既然都说得那么玄了，我就干脆来预言它没提到的后续发展。
我不认识你，所以没办法判断你到底怎么想，但原因应该不外乎两个。
一、你觉得你的离开可以把事情挡下来，给战友们缓冲时间。
可是事实上，你挡下的不是敌人，而是你的战友。
你搞出这么大的事端，随后率先被挖出来的是你的个资、你的人生、你的人际关系。你被放大检视，议题焦点反而被模糊了。
别天真的以为你这是在弃车保帅，又甚至觉得自己在从容就义。你是个核心人物，没讨论过就莽撞行事，团队少了你已经士气大伤，还接着被舆论二度伤害。
简单来说，这是个得不偿失的战略失败。
二、几天前的挫折把你的迷惘、疲累、失望全都掀了出来。
如果你是好不容易才撑到今天，我会送你一句辛苦了。
但有些事，还是要让你知道。
你的家人很自责，觉得自己来不及了解你，以致把你的才智和理想埋没。
你的他走了出来，说来不及见你一面，呼吁每个人继续关注议题，而非你的离去。
我没心情继续跟进嗜血媒体如何穷追不舍、从这些爱你的人身上套取新闻，但从事发头两天出现的讯息看来，他们将继续承受失去你的痛，而社会大众终究会把你和你带来的一切遗忘。
我在你生日的三天后才第一次读到小王子这本书，我还在想他走向毒蛇的心境，究竟是天真的以为他真的能达到回去B-612的目的，还是因为自己已在耗时的过程中感到心力交瘁。
我觉得你就是小王子的投射——聪明、纯真、善良、暖心（你在捷运做的，在你生日后又被提起了）。
但没人希望看到你像小王子一样离开，因为你没看过的世界比他没看过的更多，因为你也有和你相互牵挂着的玫瑰和狐狸。
为了自己，为了关心你的人，活着看接下来的好几个十年，当作是替自己抢回发言权和扳回一城的机会。别忘了，入土的人没有行动力，而且只能任别人诠释自己。看看之前的尘爆案，你的今天正是许多人到不了的明天，别放弃还握在手上的主控权。
所以，别选择明天离开，好吗？
你没见过的陌生人 笔
2015年7月29日 18:00
那种“如果可以改变历史”的思绪反复循环，真的很不好受。
所以，我决定把我能用来劝说的话全写下来。我不擅长说服人，但真的还是希望有一台时光机能把这封信寄回几天前，或许可以赌一把，让他留下。
我不希望这只是妄想，不希望这只是写来放过自己的一篇文章。
----------------------------------------------
嘿，大帅哥：
还有几个小时，先预祝你生日快乐，总算到达一个里程碑。
你不必知道我是谁，但我知道你想趁着生日实行某件大事。我写这封信的目的，就是为了阻止你做这件事。
你或许觉得是自己是在实现Charlie Charlie的预言——既然都说得那么玄了，我就干脆来预言它没提到的后续发展。
我不认识你，所以没办法判断你到底怎么想，但原因应该不外乎两个。
一、你觉得你的离开可以把事情挡下来，给战友们缓冲时间。
可是事实上，你挡下的不是敌人，而是你的战友。
你搞出这么大的事端，随后率先被挖出来的是你的个资、你的人生、你的人际关系。你被放大检视，议题焦点反而被模糊了。
别天真的以为你这是在弃车保帅，又甚至觉得自己在从容就义。你是个核心人物，没讨论过就莽撞行事，团队少了你已经士气大伤，还接着被舆论二度伤害。
简单来说，这是个得不偿失的战略失败。
二、几天前的挫折把你的迷惘、疲累、失望全都掀了出来。
如果你是好不容易才撑到今天，我会送你一句辛苦了。
但有些事，还是要让你知道。
你的家人很自责，觉得自己来不及了解你，以致把你的才智和理想埋没。
你的他走了出来，说来不及见你一面，呼吁每个人继续关注议题，而非你的离去。
我没心情继续跟进嗜血媒体如何穷追不舍、从这些爱你的人身上套取新闻，但从事发头两天出现的讯息看来，他们将继续承受失去你的痛，而社会大众终究会把你和你带来的一切遗忘。
我在你生日的三天后才第一次读到小王子这本书，我还在想他走向毒蛇的心境，究竟是天真的以为他真的能达到回去B-612的目的，还是因为自己已在耗时的过程中感到心力交瘁。
我觉得你就是小王子的投射——聪明、纯真、善良、暖心（你在捷运做的，在你生日后又被提起了）。
但没人希望看到你像小王子一样离开，因为你没看过的世界比他没看过的更多，因为你也有和你相互牵挂着的玫瑰和狐狸。
为了自己，为了关心你的人，活着看接下来的好几个十年，当作是替自己抢回发言权和扳回一城的机会。别忘了，入土的人没有行动力，而且只能任别人诠释自己。看看之前的尘爆案，你的今天正是许多人到不了的明天，别放弃还握在手上的主控权。
所以，别选择明天离开，好吗？
你没见过的陌生人 笔
2015年7月29日 18:00
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
20150623 Lianhe Wanbao
惊见16岁儿吊死 母亲崩溃大哭
23/06/2015 by 黄志发 , 吴若仪
住家单位内惊见16岁儿子上吊自杀，母亲歇斯底里崩溃大哭。昨天晚上9时许，勿洛水池路第602座组屋的一间单位内传出凄惨的哭喊声。家人发现16岁的谭俊龙（洋名Aloysius）在屋内上吊自杀，被发现时已经没有生命迹象。
死者生前是达迈中学中四的学生，和父母及姐弟同住。
记者今早走访时，在单位敲门许久都无人应门。一名不愿具名的居民表示，昨晚事发单位传出一阵哭喊声。
“一名女子哭得非常激动，我们还听见有人敲打窗口，让人心酸。”
他也表示，居民看见很多警员和陌生人进出事发单位，猜测到有事发生。
有居民上前向男屋主了解情况，男屋主坦言自己儿子已经自杀身亡。
其他居民知道后也纷纷上前安慰，让他为了其他子女振作起来。
另一名居民则表示，死者有一名在理工学院就读的大姐，还有一名9岁的弟弟。并表示常常在组屋附近碰见姐弟三人。“大姐和小弟看到邻居会打招呼，唯独二弟（死者）比较酷，不打招呼。”
今早，死者的父母和姐姐三人到殓尸房认尸，神情凝重，双眼红肿。死者的母亲情绪激动，拒绝受访。死者姐姐在一旁将手搭在母亲肩膀上安慰她。
警方受询时证实这起事件，并把此案列为非自然死亡案件调查。
Upon seeing her 16-year-old son hanging suicide, the mother broke down and cried hysterically. The incident was discovered in a unit at Blk 602 Bedok Reservoir Road at 9pm last night. The deceased, 16-year-old Aloysius Tham Jun Long, was found hanging himself at home without any vital sign. The Secondary 4 student from Damai Secondary School stayed with his parents, elder sister, and younger brother.
23/06/2015 by 黄志发 , 吴若仪
住家单位内惊见16岁儿子上吊自杀，母亲歇斯底里崩溃大哭。昨天晚上9时许，勿洛水池路第602座组屋的一间单位内传出凄惨的哭喊声。家人发现16岁的谭俊龙（洋名Aloysius）在屋内上吊自杀，被发现时已经没有生命迹象。
死者生前是达迈中学中四的学生，和父母及姐弟同住。
记者今早走访时，在单位敲门许久都无人应门。一名不愿具名的居民表示，昨晚事发单位传出一阵哭喊声。
“一名女子哭得非常激动，我们还听见有人敲打窗口，让人心酸。”
他也表示，居民看见很多警员和陌生人进出事发单位，猜测到有事发生。
有居民上前向男屋主了解情况，男屋主坦言自己儿子已经自杀身亡。
其他居民知道后也纷纷上前安慰，让他为了其他子女振作起来。
另一名居民则表示，死者有一名在理工学院就读的大姐，还有一名9岁的弟弟。并表示常常在组屋附近碰见姐弟三人。“大姐和小弟看到邻居会打招呼，唯独二弟（死者）比较酷，不打招呼。”
今早，死者的父母和姐姐三人到殓尸房认尸，神情凝重，双眼红肿。死者的母亲情绪激动，拒绝受访。死者姐姐在一旁将手搭在母亲肩膀上安慰她。
警方受询时证实这起事件，并把此案列为非自然死亡案件调查。
Upon seeing her 16-year-old son hanging suicide, the mother broke down and cried hysterically. The incident was discovered in a unit at Blk 602 Bedok Reservoir Road at 9pm last night. The deceased, 16-year-old Aloysius Tham Jun Long, was found hanging himself at home without any vital sign. The Secondary 4 student from Damai Secondary School stayed with his parents, elder sister, and younger brother.
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