SIN MONG XING, 2013, TA13070303
NIGEL YAP YEW CHEONG, 2013, TA13074929
DONAVAN YAP TECK SIONG, 2013. TA13076209
YEO HUNG SONG, 2013, TA13073974
GOH CHUAN KIET, 2014, TA14008264
CHIANG YUAN WEI DENNIS, 2017, TA17000375
https://www.mlaw.gov.sg/content/dam/minlaw/pto/docs/PT.pdf
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Wednesday, September 4, 2019
Thank you for the flame :)
Hey A,
Less than a week ago, I happened to know your story and your Facebook post. Then, the news broke.
This morning, I happened to find your blog. Spending the whole day reading your posts, I decided to pay respect to you at your wake. The atmosphere was calm and peaceful. Through glass, I met you for the first time.
We might be strangers to each other, but I see many qualities in you that I am truly envy of:
Because of these, you really deserve your life transformation, your progression, the love and happiness surrounding you, and my respect. You have earned yourself the most fulfilling life a boy could have.
A, thank you for showing me the possibility that I could have become a way better man should I come to terms with myself, be braver to be myself, be more dedicated to present, and be more aspired. I hope the flame can guide me through whenever I am lost, or even bring a transformation in me. You have lived your life with impacts and difference to the world. Now, you could have further made a stranger’s life even better.
Anyway, do take your time over there (you said that it’s not darkness when you close your eyes) and bless those you care the most ;)
K. T.
9.30pm, 4 Sep 2019.
Less than a week ago, I happened to know your story and your Facebook post. Then, the news broke.
This morning, I happened to find your blog. Spending the whole day reading your posts, I decided to pay respect to you at your wake. The atmosphere was calm and peaceful. Through glass, I met you for the first time.
We might be strangers to each other, but I see many qualities in you that I am truly envy of:
- You are intelligent and mature. You read a lot, you reflect a lot, you know how to express your thoughts, and you clearly know the directions in your life.
- You are truthful and firm to who you are and who you like since young, in spite of all internal and external conflicts. It’s not easy for atheist, let alone a devotee.
- You are a man of action. Once decided, you will do your best to achieve your targets.
- You are persevered against the odds, be it in your relationships, studies, career, or even in your final battle.
- You are compassionate, empathetic, and selfless. You are willing to change yourself to protect the softest part deep inside your heart.
- Most importantly, you are brave and optimistic. You may once had fragile moments, but you manage to cheer yourself up and spread optimism to your loved ones.
Because of these, you really deserve your life transformation, your progression, the love and happiness surrounding you, and my respect. You have earned yourself the most fulfilling life a boy could have.
A, thank you for showing me the possibility that I could have become a way better man should I come to terms with myself, be braver to be myself, be more dedicated to present, and be more aspired. I hope the flame can guide me through whenever I am lost, or even bring a transformation in me. You have lived your life with impacts and difference to the world. Now, you could have further made a stranger’s life even better.
Anyway, do take your time over there (you said that it’s not darkness when you close your eyes) and bless those you care the most ;)
K. T.
9.30pm, 4 Sep 2019.
20190904 新明日报
抗癌“阳光男”遗愿：打造欢乐灵堂
发布/2019年9月4日 3:07 PM
文/李思摄影/徐颖荃
来自/新明日报
乐观抗癌的“阳光男”不敌病魔，家属按遗愿打造“欢乐灵堂”，内设游戏机让小朋友玩乐，吊唁亲友还送来气球。
《新明日报》日前报道，这名生前从事金融业的许国锋（32岁），除了烟酒不沾外，也有健身习惯且平日爱好户外活动，他在去年6月因发烧至40度，被送入院就医后被诊断患有淋巴癌，随后癌细胞迅速扩展并恶化至末期，可是他仍然乐观坚强面对，但最终没能战胜病魔，于8月31日逝世。
家属前天在新加坡殡仪馆设置灵堂，并按照其遗愿，不愿具名的哥哥昨晚（9月3日）受访时说，弟弟生前性格乐观开朗，虽然患病后十分苦恼，但随后变得坦然。由于一家都是基督徒，因此他不认为死亡是生命的结束，而是会到另一世界继续他的人生。
设游戏机供玩乐
他透露，灵堂的设计都是按照弟弟的遗愿布置，除了播放欢快的歌曲外，还设立一台游戏机供小朋友玩乐，许多亲友也送来气球和鲜花，完全不像是灵堂。
他提到，昨日前来吊唁的亲友络绎不绝，人群一度排到大门口，很多人也写下寄语祝福弟弟。
他强调，这场仪式并不是为了“送走”弟弟，不要因此感到悲伤，而是庆祝他到了另一个国度去享福，所有亲友都应为此高兴，把这当成一场派对。
“弟弟去世的当天，在教会举办了礼拜，最后一句话就是邀请大家和他一起享受这个美好的永生，有朝一日与他在天国相遇。”
据悉，死者家人遵照许国峰生前的遗愿，日前在面子书上发表贴文，希望前来吊唁的亲友，避免穿黑白服饰，希望他们届时都能面带笑容前来。
昨日前来吊唁的亲友大多身穿鲜艳服饰，有些还穿了红色，五颜六色的衣服瞬间将礼堂染成彩色海洋。
死者哥哥表示，这正是弟弟所愿，不要为了他的往生而难过，而是要为了他能在另一个世界延续生命而感到高兴。
发布/2019年9月4日 3:07 PM
文/李思摄影/徐颖荃
来自/新明日报
亲友不仅送鲜花，还为许国锋送来气球。
乐观抗癌的“阳光男”不敌病魔，家属按遗愿打造“欢乐灵堂”，内设游戏机让小朋友玩乐，吊唁亲友还送来气球。
《新明日报》日前报道，这名生前从事金融业的许国锋（32岁），除了烟酒不沾外，也有健身习惯且平日爱好户外活动，他在去年6月因发烧至40度，被送入院就医后被诊断患有淋巴癌，随后癌细胞迅速扩展并恶化至末期，可是他仍然乐观坚强面对，但最终没能战胜病魔，于8月31日逝世。
许国锋乐观坚强地抗癌，只可惜最终还是不敌病魔。
家属前天在新加坡殡仪馆设置灵堂，并按照其遗愿，不愿具名的哥哥昨晚（9月3日）受访时说，弟弟生前性格乐观开朗，虽然患病后十分苦恼，但随后变得坦然。由于一家都是基督徒，因此他不认为死亡是生命的结束，而是会到另一世界继续他的人生。
设游戏机供玩乐
他透露，灵堂的设计都是按照弟弟的遗愿布置，除了播放欢快的歌曲外，还设立一台游戏机供小朋友玩乐，许多亲友也送来气球和鲜花，完全不像是灵堂。
他提到，昨日前来吊唁的亲友络绎不绝，人群一度排到大门口，很多人也写下寄语祝福弟弟。
他强调，这场仪式并不是为了“送走”弟弟，不要因此感到悲伤，而是庆祝他到了另一个国度去享福，所有亲友都应为此高兴，把这当成一场派对。
“弟弟去世的当天，在教会举办了礼拜，最后一句话就是邀请大家和他一起享受这个美好的永生，有朝一日与他在天国相遇。”
据悉，死者家人遵照许国峰生前的遗愿，日前在面子书上发表贴文，希望前来吊唁的亲友，避免穿黑白服饰，希望他们届时都能面带笑容前来。
昨日前来吊唁的亲友大多身穿鲜艳服饰，有些还穿了红色，五颜六色的衣服瞬间将礼堂染成彩色海洋。
死者哥哥表示，这正是弟弟所愿，不要为了他的往生而难过，而是要为了他能在另一个世界延续生命而感到高兴。
20190904 The Straits Times
Swimming instructor, 23, dies after virus triggers rare immune disorder
Swimming instructor Benedict James Naden Lim, 23, swam competitively for the Singapore Institute of Management and was a fit young man who was careful about what he ate and kept a strict fitness regimen.
When he fell ill in June, Mr Naden thought his cough and fever symptoms were signs of a common flu, and a visit to the doctor did not suggest otherwise. But his symptoms were those of the Epstein-Barr virus, which triggered a rare immune disorder known as hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis.
Mr Naden, who was due to graduate in May next year, was also later diagnosed with T-cell lymphoma, a rare type of cancer, three weeks after he was hospitalised. He died last Saturday afternoon, just 2½ months after he first fell ill, and around an hour after he had surgery to relieve the pressure in his brain.
Speaking to The Straits Times at his son's wake yesterday, Mr Benjamin Naden, 52, said scans and tests conducted when his son was admitted to hospital in July found that the organs, including the liver and kidneys, were deteriorating and there was water in the lungs. But his son, who coached young children at the aquatic club where he learnt to swim, remained resolute and "felt he would be able to fight it", he added.
While he looked to be recovering initially, with his organ functions stabilising and blood test results improving, Mr Naden had a relapse shortly after. This time, the signs were not as positive: His brain and heart were weakening, said his father, who works in infrastructure and solutions at Dell.
Last Saturday, after Mr Naden suffered a seizure and bleeding in his brain, his father posted on social media with a public call for blood donation to the national blood bank. His father said: "(Calling for blood donation) was not just for my son, it's also for the general public."
The family of four - including the couple's daughter Bernadette, 21 - was close-knit. Father and son went on several diving trips together, with their last in June 2017 to Lembeh, Indonesia. The family planned to visit Osaka around Christmas, as it was "on his bucket list". "I guess now, we owe him a trip," said his father.
He said the family intends to donate the money collected at the wake to a charity in his son's name. The family declined to reveal the sum collected over the two days, but said some 550 people have attended the wake at St Joseph's Church in Upper Bukit Timah Road. The cremation will take place today at Mandai Crematorium.
Benedict James Naden Lim (third from left) and his family on holiday in New Zealand in December 2018. PHOTO: BENJAMIN NADEN
Swimming instructor Benedict James Naden Lim, 23, swam competitively for the Singapore Institute of Management and was a fit young man who was careful about what he ate and kept a strict fitness regimen.
When he fell ill in June, Mr Naden thought his cough and fever symptoms were signs of a common flu, and a visit to the doctor did not suggest otherwise. But his symptoms were those of the Epstein-Barr virus, which triggered a rare immune disorder known as hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis.
Mr Naden, who was due to graduate in May next year, was also later diagnosed with T-cell lymphoma, a rare type of cancer, three weeks after he was hospitalised. He died last Saturday afternoon, just 2½ months after he first fell ill, and around an hour after he had surgery to relieve the pressure in his brain.
Speaking to The Straits Times at his son's wake yesterday, Mr Benjamin Naden, 52, said scans and tests conducted when his son was admitted to hospital in July found that the organs, including the liver and kidneys, were deteriorating and there was water in the lungs. But his son, who coached young children at the aquatic club where he learnt to swim, remained resolute and "felt he would be able to fight it", he added.
While he looked to be recovering initially, with his organ functions stabilising and blood test results improving, Mr Naden had a relapse shortly after. This time, the signs were not as positive: His brain and heart were weakening, said his father, who works in infrastructure and solutions at Dell.
Last Saturday, after Mr Naden suffered a seizure and bleeding in his brain, his father posted on social media with a public call for blood donation to the national blood bank. His father said: "(Calling for blood donation) was not just for my son, it's also for the general public."
The family of four - including the couple's daughter Bernadette, 21 - was close-knit. Father and son went on several diving trips together, with their last in June 2017 to Lembeh, Indonesia. The family planned to visit Osaka around Christmas, as it was "on his bucket list". "I guess now, we owe him a trip," said his father.
He said the family intends to donate the money collected at the wake to a charity in his son's name. The family declined to reveal the sum collected over the two days, but said some 550 people have attended the wake at St Joseph's Church in Upper Bukit Timah Road. The cremation will take place today at Mandai Crematorium.
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Tuesday, September 3, 2019
20190903 联合晚报
发布/2019年9月3日 2:40 PM
文/涂健强 摄影/陈斌勤
来自/联合晚报
林韦宾生前是一名游泳健将，多次在本地大小比赛获奖，他本身也是一名游泳教练。（取自林韦宾Instagram）
23岁游泳健将原以为只是患上小感冒，结果在短短两个半月内经历肾脏和肝脏衰竭、肺积水、淋巴癌和脑出血等症状，上周六（8月31日）他动了脑部手术，被送到加护病房的一小时后就撒手人寰。
《联合晚报》报道，不幸离世的林韦宾是新加坡管理学院（SIM）的大数据分析系学生，从小爱游泳的他是一名运动健将，在本地大小游泳比赛获奖无数，同时也是一名游泳教练。
家人万万没想到，身体健康的他会因为一场罕见的疾病失去性命。
林韦宾拥有欧亚裔与华人血统，他的父亲本杰明·纳登（Benjamin Gerard Naden，52岁）昨天受访时指出，今年6月中，儿子突然发烧和出红疹，到诊所看医生后被当成一般感冒处理，但儿子吃药后情况不见好转，到了7月时身体状况变差，家人便把他送去医院急诊室。
父亲说，医院检查后发现，原来儿子感染的是爱泼斯坦巴尔病毒（Epstein-Barr Virus，简称EBV），这种病毒的症状很像感冒，一般人也会像感冒般痊愈，不过有些人的基因可影响人体对EBV病毒的反应，可演变成鼻癌或罕见的噬血细胞淋巴组织增多症（hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis,简称HLH），HLH则类似白血病，必须接受化疗。
“韦宾后来证实得了HLH，医生检查发现他的肝脏和肾脏已开始衰竭，后来也出现肺积水的症状。”
他说，儿子住院约三周后情况好转并准备接受化疗，岂料还没开始化疗，又再被验出患有淋巴癌。
他称儿子上周一（8月26日）左脑突然出血陷入昏迷，医生在上周六（31日）为儿子进行脑部手术后，没想手术后他被送到加护病房约一个小时突然就走了。
林韦宾的遗体停柩在武吉知马路上段圣若瑟教堂，明天（9月4日）举行葬礼。
国家血库库存不足 林父吁民众踊跃捐血
短短两个月医药费高达40万元（约120万令吉），林韦宾的父亲呼吁民众买保险做好保障，他也呼吁公众踊跃捐血。
本杰明·纳登说：“韦宾是个游泳健将，甚至有六块腹肌，谁也没想到这么健康的他会突然染上恶疾。健康并不是必然的，大家必须做好保障，免得发生事情时无法应付庞大的医药费。”
此外，他也从儿子住院的过程中发现，国家血库一直面对库存不足的问题，一旦血库不够血，病人便无法动手术，他因此在儿子动手术前夕，也通过面簿呼吁公众踊跃捐血，这不只是为了救林韦宾，也为了拯救有需要的病人。
据医生跟他说，捐血后的鲜血只可存放数周，而从血液中分离出来的血小板更是只能保存几天，所以健康者应养成定期捐血的习惯。”
毕业后仍回学院探望 学弟妹眼中好哥哥
毕业后仍不时回理工学院探望，林韦宾是泳队学弟妹眼中的好哥哥。
林韦宾在义安理工学院就读时是学校游泳队的一员，泳队教练谢迪健（39岁）形容他就像是队里的大哥哥，总会照顾和协助队友与学弟妹。
谢迪健说：“我对他印象很深刻，因为他真的很出色，就算毕业后也会回来探望学弟妹和帮助他们。以前他在队里时，我还没开口，他就会主动帮忙收拾泳具。如今大家知道他去世都很难过。”
除了在泳队里备受爱戴，林韦宾在家族里也是惹人疼的孩子。
父亲说：“儿子比较腼腆，他很有礼貌，是一个绅士，也很聪明，有时会动小脑筋，在想要某样东西时，就会想办法来说服我，就好像他想要去国外旅行，就会想办法让我赞成。”
父亲形容林韦宾与妹妹、他和妻子的关系密切，每年圣诞假期一家人会出国旅游，原本今年计划去日本大阪，如今已无法成行。
EBV感染者患HLH 120万之一几率
每120万名EBV患者中，约有一人会进一步患上导致免疫障碍的HLH。
本杰明·纳登说：“治疗我儿子的医生告诉我,感染EBV者当中每120万人只有一个会变成导致免疫障碍的HLH，这是非常罕见的病例。
家庭医师刘志华受访时也说，不管任何年龄层的大人和小孩都有可能感染EBV病毒，此病毒并不罕见，不过演变成好像林韦宾的HLH病症则是非常少见的病例。
刘志华医生形容，EBV病毒的初期症状很像感冒，许多医生都会误以为病人是患上感冒。
他说：“如果感冒持续超过三天，就需要找医生做身体检查，只有在检查后才能发现是EBV病毒。建议大家在接触公共场合后必须洗手，尤其是在触碰鼻子和嘴巴之前，借此避免感染EBV病毒。”
Monday, September 2, 2019
20190902 新明日报
患癌“阳光男”逝世 家人吁亲友带笑容送行
发布/2019年9月2日 3:09 PM
文/曾薪机
来自/新明日报
患淋巴癌，乐观面对的壮硕“阳光男”，不敌病魔逝世，家人在网络上呼吁前来吊唁的亲友，避穿黑白，最好穿上色彩缤纷服饰及面带笑容前来送行。
《新明日报》早前曾经报道，这名生前从事金融业的许国锋（32岁），除了烟酒不沾外，也有健身习惯且平日爱好户外活动，他在去年6月因发烧至40度，被送入院就医后被诊断患有淋巴癌，随后癌细胞迅速扩展并恶化至末期，可是他仍然乐观坚强面对。
许国锋前天（8月31日）晚间11时25分逝世。
许国峰的家人随后在他的面簿上发贴文，指遗体将会停柩在新加坡殡仪馆，5日早上9时45分出殡。
家人在贴文中指出，希望前来吊唁的亲友，避免穿黑白服饰前来，同时也希望届时他们都能面带笑容前来。
许国峰生前在隶属青年基督徒的平台“YMI”访问时指出，他患病后，曾难以接受现实，并因遭受呕吐及脱发等痛苦，一度对自身的信仰抱持严重的怀疑。而患病之后，最痛苦的一件事莫过于见到母亲无能为力，只能在一旁落泪。
根据该平台报道，许国峰在两个月前停止接受治疗，而在他去世前的最后一个星期，出院返家接受慈怀疗护（Palliative care）。
盼亲友能快乐继续生活下去
许国峰上个月16日发布的贴文中向所有的亲友指出，虽然即将离去，但仍然会继续陪伴在他们的身边，并希望他们能带着笑容继续生活下去。
许国峰生前提及，当初他罹患的是淋巴癌初期，医生向他透露痊愈率高达90%，但病情却不断恶化，即使随后更换另一种更高强度的化疗方法，也无法根治。
他在三周前左右也曾发布面簿贴文，称预计能多活二至三个月，不料随后病情突然恶化后逝世。
发布/2019年9月2日 3:09 PM
文/曾薪机
来自/新明日报
许国峰生前热爱健身及户外运动，是个阳光型男。（档案照）
患淋巴癌，乐观面对的壮硕“阳光男”，不敌病魔逝世，家人在网络上呼吁前来吊唁的亲友，避穿黑白，最好穿上色彩缤纷服饰及面带笑容前来送行。
《新明日报》早前曾经报道，这名生前从事金融业的许国锋（32岁），除了烟酒不沾外，也有健身习惯且平日爱好户外活动，他在去年6月因发烧至40度，被送入院就医后被诊断患有淋巴癌，随后癌细胞迅速扩展并恶化至末期，可是他仍然乐观坚强面对。
许国锋前天（8月31日）晚间11时25分逝世。
许国峰的家人随后在他的面簿上发贴文，指遗体将会停柩在新加坡殡仪馆，5日早上9时45分出殡。
家人在贴文中指出，希望前来吊唁的亲友，避免穿黑白服饰前来，同时也希望届时他们都能面带笑容前来。
许国峰生前在隶属青年基督徒的平台“YMI”访问时指出，他患病后，曾难以接受现实，并因遭受呕吐及脱发等痛苦，一度对自身的信仰抱持严重的怀疑。而患病之后，最痛苦的一件事莫过于见到母亲无能为力，只能在一旁落泪。
根据该平台报道，许国峰在两个月前停止接受治疗，而在他去世前的最后一个星期，出院返家接受慈怀疗护（Palliative care）。
许国峰（档案照）
盼亲友能快乐继续生活下去
许国峰上个月16日发布的贴文中向所有的亲友指出，虽然即将离去，但仍然会继续陪伴在他们的身边，并希望他们能带着笑容继续生活下去。
许国峰生前提及，当初他罹患的是淋巴癌初期，医生向他透露痊愈率高达90%，但病情却不断恶化，即使随后更换另一种更高强度的化疗方法，也无法根治。
他在三周前左右也曾发布面簿贴文，称预计能多活二至三个月，不料随后病情突然恶化后逝世。
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In Loving Memory of Benedict James Naden Lim
who was called home to be with the Lord on 31 August 2019
Age: 23
Dearly missed and fondly remembered by his loved ones:
PARENTS
Benjamin Gerard Naden
Josephine Lim
SISTER
Bernadette Jane Naden Lim
And all beloved relatives and friends.
Obituary as published in THE STRAITS TIMES on 02 Sep 2019
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